Sometimes I think back to that first day when we trekked out to North Avenue Beach, with two year old Murphy in tow, for our first photo session together.  I had absolutely no clue what I was doing and I was scared out of my mind…but I had a blast.  We literally took photos all day…and I not only fell in love with photography all over again…but I fell in love with the Belvins.  Four years later…I am doing what I love because of that fateful day…and I have a second family on the east coast that I could never live without.

 

It’s no secret how much I love visiting Scituate and my Belvin weekends…but I feel so lucky to have been given the chance to watch these kids grow up.  To document their lives year after year…and get one step closer to officially earning the title of Aunt Lauren.  🙂  Every year Cara tops herself with outfits and cuteness and overall family photo perfection.  But I think this year she hit a home run.  But I’ll let you see for yourself…

 

Last year Ava didn’t really want anything to do with me…now we are best friends forever.  Finally!!!!!

I mean come on…

He’s such a little man…I can still remember his tiny sandy feet.

We gave the kids a break and took a little mommy/daddy time.  I can only hope Gary and I will be this in love after 11 years.  Love them.  🙂

 

Belvins…I love you.  Enough said.

  • Maureen - July 11, 2013 - 7:48 am

    OMG too cute! Beautiful pictures of a beautiful family! I can’t believe how much Murphy is looking like Shane!ReplyCancel

  • Emilia Jane - July 11, 2013 - 8:23 am

    I love seeing this family’s pictures after your trips 🙂 The kids are growing too fast though!! They’re SO cuteReplyCancel

  • Janet Wakefield - July 11, 2013 - 3:38 pm

    Love these photos – those kids are just too cute!ReplyCancel

I don’t know if it was the wine or Sprite or almondy joy chocolate chip cookies…but as I sat around the table last night with some of my favorite people on this earth…I got little butterflies in my stomach.  Not only because I got to spend an evening laughing and talking about anything and everything.  Including Justin Timberlake.  But because somehow in this crazy life…in this crazy industry…I found a place I can call home.  I found people that I can call friends…people who in any other life would be my competition.  But as we sat bunched around my dining room table…were my biggest cheerleaders.  

 

I was laying in bed this morning thinking about what it means to have people in your corner.  What it means to have people in this industry who believe in you and make you better.  And how above all else…I want to be that person for other people.  This week marks the month count down until our Turning Tides Retreat and just like last night…I have butterflies.  Sure…a few of them are nerves because I know it’s going to be unlike anything I’ve ever experienced before.  But the rest of them are excitement.  Excitement to spend a few days with a group of people who will become my life long friends.  And who will always be in each other’s corners.  Late night talks over lots of wine.  Boat rides and one on one conversations that will pull out that person that is buried deep inside all of us.  I’m excited to learn and grow and give every piece of me that I can to help every person there do the same.  I know deep down in the pit of stomach…this retreat is going to change lives.  And I whole heartedly believe mine will be one of them.

 

Since we are a month out (eeeeeek!)…we are running a special this week only for $50 off your seat!  There are still a few seats left so let’s fill this baby up and have the time of our lives!  

 

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I can’t wait to see you there!

Chicago weather is not for the faint of heart.  We spend all winter bundled up indoors praying for the day the sunshine reappears.  And then usually around June it decides to maybe peek it’s head out.  Spring?? No…we don’t get spring.  Then right as you think summer is here…it gets cold again.  And rains.  And rains.  When Meagan and Michael originally scheduled their session in early June…we were sure it would be all sunshine and rainbows.  But when the day rolled around…it was frigid and rainy.  So we rescheduled for a few weeks later…and in true Chicago fashion…got the exact opposite.  There wasn’t a rain cloud in sight…but 90 degrees and extreme humidity.  But hey…it’s a small price to pay to live in the greatest city in the world!

 

Even with the heat…these two were amazing.  They showed the heat who was boss and we ended up having a blast.  You could tell they are the type of people can handle whatever comes their way…as long as they’re together.  Watching them laugh together all afternoon really gave me a peek into just how great they are together.  More than great…perfect.  And I, for one, am counting down the days until their wedding.

 

The speeches were wrapping up and the entire room had a smile on their face.  Because when you’re around Jaime and Flo…it’s hard not to.  Jaime’s dad took the microphone to say one last thing.  He paused for a minute…gathering himself trying to fight the tears that were welling up in his eyes.  Of course when I see tears I am like a moth to a flame.  I was shooting away and he began to speak.  He said that he wanted to mention one more person…the person standing next to him who had brought so much light into this wedding.  I glanced at his wife standing next to him and smiled from behind my camera.  This family makes my heart so full.  Then he continues to say…she’s actually taking a picture of me right now.

 

I dropped my camera down to my side and froze.  I could feel all the blood in my body rush to my face and I was literally dumbstruck.  He was talking about me! He went on the thank me for capturing their memories from Switzerland and I could feel little tears start to well up in my eyes.  In that moment, I have honestly never felt so happy to be doing what I do.  It was like all the years of hard work and tears and failures boiled down to that one moment and I was so overwhelmed.  It was like a giant blinking sign…telling me this is what I’m meant to be doing.

 

Half of me wanted to hide because the entire room was looking at me.  But the other half wanted to give Jaime and Flo and that entire family the world’s biggest hug.  Because as much as they think I have given them…they have given me so much more.  Being able to tell their story…from Switzerland to Detroit…makes me want to burst with happiness and gratitude.

 

Jaime an Flo and your entire family…from the most sincere bottom of my heart…thank you for making me feel like part of your family.  You not only allowed me to document your lives…you made me a part of it.  And you will all always hold a very special place in my heart.  And Jim…thank you for a moment I will never ever forget.

 

In Switzerland…we let off red heart balloons with wishes attached to them.  It was only appropriate to do the same thing in Detroit.

  • Janet Wakefield - June 27, 2013 - 8:43 pm

    What a sweet thing to do for you Lauren – they made you feel like family but you must have treated them like they were family too!
    Very Special!ReplyCancel

I’m one of those people with the mind set…if it’s not broken, don’t fix it.  I get stuck in my ways and it takes a LOT to get me out of them.  I figure something out my own way and I don’t want to change it for the life of me.  Maybe it’s laziness.  Or stubbornness   But nonetheless…it’s the way I am.

 

When I started my business I had to figure out how to do things on my own.  I read blogs and googled everything.  But the few things I knew how to do I hung onto for dear life.  And the things I figured on my own out were inevitably set in stone.  Unable to be changed.  Truthfully…it’s an awful way of doing things and I definitely don’t recommend it.  But if I’m being honest…it was the way I did everything.

 

What I never realized was the amount of time I was wasting.  I mean A LOT of time.  I was working a full time job and trying to build a photography business and time was not on my side.  In my head…the time it would take to learn a new system…or a new way of doing something…was time I didn’t have.  But what I wasn’t realizing…was the time I was wasting was ten fold compared to the time it would take to change a few things.  Finally…last year (after I went full time)…I decided to sit down and reevaluate my work flow.  I just needed to take a step back…listen to what people had been telling me…and start figuring out all the things I had been avoiding.

 

As I sit here now I laugh at myself because I can’t believe I ever wasted so much time.  I mean it’s kind of embarrassing but really just hilarious because I was so stubborn.  And now…I can’t imagine doing things any other way.  I call these things my ‘LIFE-savers.‘  Because that’s exactly what they did.  They gave me back my life.  I can get things done 20 times as fast and get back to my life.  The reasons why I do this in the first place…the people who are most important to me.  Since I figured there is no way I am the only person who has been through this…I thought I would share a few of those things today.

 

**Disclaimer…I know the majority of you probably use all of these things…but for anyone like me who never made the jump.  This is for you.**

 

Blogstomp

This program is seriously amazing.  I had heard people talking about it but I didn’t understand it so I just refused.  I used to open every single image in Photoshop, resize it, then copy and paste it onto a watermarked file and save it for the web.  That may not seem so bad for a a few images…but for a wedding…this took me HOURS!

Now…with Blogstomp…I just open it up, drag my blog images into the window, and click-stomp-click-stomp.  It automatically sizes and watermarks my images and puts them all into a folder of my choice.  You can sharpen the images for the web and name them for your blog all by just clicking ‘stomp’.  You know those wedding posts where you want to put 3 or 4 detail shots together…Blogstomp does it.  You just select all the images you want to use together and it collages them for you until you’re happy.  It truly is amazing.  I can blog an entire wedding in under 10 minutes. The best part…it’s only $50! LIFE-saver.

 

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Photo Mechanic

This was probably the one I was most resistant on.  I couldn’t understand why I needed a program to cull.  I mean I could cull just fine in Bridge.  But finally I gave in a tried it out and whoa…changed my life.  You know when you’re culling in Lightroom or Bridge and as you scroll that second lag that happens before your image appears sharp?  I never even realized how much time I was wasting waiting for the image to load until I started using Photo Mechanic.  Photo Mechanic is instant.  You can color code or star your images at lightning speed because there is no loading time.  Your images instantly appear sharp as you scroll.  And it’s only $150.  I promise…it is worth it’s weight in gold!

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Lightroom

When I first started my business…I am completely embarrassed to say that I would open every single photo in Photoshop and edit it.  Then save it in color, turn it to black and white…and save it again as black and white.  This was after I went through all my images in Preview and wrote down the image numbers of the files I was keeping.  This was my version of culling.  Then I would go through…manually select those numbers and move them into a folder….and start the Photoshop process.  It would take me weeks to edit a wedding.  Thank God back then I was doing mostly families…because I wouldn’t have lasted long otherwise.

 

After I realized that system really wasn’t working…I started using Bridge.  I could Cull like a normal person…and I would open 20 or so images at time in Camera Raw and edit that way.  This seemed like lightning speed compared to my pervious way of doing things.  Once I got my groove in Bridge I just was not budging.  In the back of my mind I knew I needed to try Lightroom…and last January (yes like 6 months ago) I opened it up and gave it a try.  With the amazing help of Christy Tyler…I was a pro in a day (OK…maybe not a pro but I got the gist).

 

At first I had a couple issues with it.  I felt like it really flattened all my images…and I hated the way it made my black and whites look.  But…the pros far outweighed the cons.  Since I didn’t have to edit 20 images at a time…I could fly through them.  I would edit the first image in a series (similar lighting situation) and then select all the images in that series and sync them.  Then I could just scroll through them all to make sure they look good and I’m on to the next series.  I can even do a little pseudo Photoshop work right in Lightroom.  Touch up problem areas or lighten/darken certain areas.  In the entire editing process, I never open a single image in Photoshop.  Sure there are exceptions…but 99% of the time I do everything right in Lightroom.

 

When I’m done editing all my images (which usually takes me 3-4 hours, never in a row because I have editing ADD)…I export them all as JPEGs.  I mentioned earlier that I hated the was Lightroom made my black and whites look…so I came up with my own solution.  Because I’m kind of psycho about black and whites.  Back in my Bridge days I had created an action for my black and whites.  So after I export all my images from Lightroom, I select them all and batch process them through Photoshop using my black and white action.  I know I said I never open an image in Photoshop…but literally I don’t.  I start the process and walk away.  In 20 minutes or so all my images have run through and there is a black and white copy of each one happy and waiting in my final images folder.  Some people may love what Lightroom can do with their black and whites…I just haven’t found a way yet.

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Well there you have it…my little list of LIFE-savers.  I apologize for the incredibly long post.  And again…this is only the way I do things.  It is by no means the only way.  But hopefully this helps any of you out there who feel a little stuck and want to get their life back!

  • Janet Wakefield - June 25, 2013 - 9:55 am

    Working smarter not harder – I love it!
    Did you say stubborn, do it my own way – Not Lauren – couldn’t be, I am sure you grew out of that phase when you were a teen.
    MOMReplyCancel